This Is What You Should Do and Know About Period Insomnia

This Is What You Should Do and Know About Period Insomnia


Your hormones definitely dictate how well you sleep.

If you menstruate, you probably feel like just about everything that happens to you that could be considered slightly off has something to do with your period. And you wouldn’t be totally wrong.

I am not, in general, good at sleeping when I’m supposed to be sleeping. I’m the most productive in the mid afternoon and onward, so I’ve been known to be awake at strange hours. Usually at some point in the month, though, productive nights give way to fogginess, anxiety, and terrible insomnia. Part of this, the anxiety and the feeling like I’m walking through Jello, is definitely connected to the arrival of my period, but I wasn’t so sure about the insomnia until I asked a few other vagina owners, and here’s what they reported:

“YES. About 3 days beforehand. Every. Single. Month.”

“The two nights before are always terrible, even if I’m exhausted by life otherwise. I also have messed up dreams.”

“Right the eff now. Wide awake, getting no sleep, so tired during the day.”

It’s always nice to know it’s not just you, but what is going on? As if there weren’t already a myriad of odd symptoms connected to our periods, why also this?

“On one hand, it’s not surprising that dealing with cramps, headaches, and all the other physical unpleasantries that come along with periods can result in sleep problems,” says Chris Brantner, Certified Sleep Science Coach at Bratner points out that it’s, you guessed it, hormones  that are primarily responsible for period insomnia, as well as all the shifts in moods we experience. “It’s not uncommon to feel depressed around the start of your period. Furthermore, anxiety can spike during menstruation. Unfortunately, anxiety and depression are two of the most common causes of insomnia.”

It’s a lack of progesterone that’s to blame for insomnia before and during your period, since progesterone has a sedative effect on the body, particular bodies with vaginas, this decrease in progesterone is totally normal. Basically, before you bleed, you have a lot of it, and when you are bleeding, it drops, and hello, insomnia.

Your period doesn’t just keep you from sleeping, though. There are actually a number of things that can happen to your sleep cycle in the time directly leading up to bleeding. I definitely know my period is on its way when I have one day of really excellent, razor sharp concentration.

“This is due to a number of not so well studied changes occurring in the brain and body which include changes in hormones such as estrogen, progesterone, serotonin and dopamine,” says Dr. Cindy M.P. Duke, Medical Director, Founding Physician, and Laboratory Director at the Nevada Fertility Institute. “These hormones have all been implicated in brain functioning, sleep cycles and emotional memory.”

And if  you have the experience of feeling like you’re wobbling around in cognitive sludge right before bleeding, you’re not alone. “Interestingly, there are women who can describe that “fog being lifted” during this time of the month and they know based on this that their period is about to start,” says Duke.

What can you do to alleviate period insomnia? Dr. Elizabeth Trattner, a Chinese medicine practitioner, recommends dealing with nausea and cramps that might keep you up with a hot water bottle and ginger tea.”In Chinese medicine,  stagnation is another reason for insomnia,” says Trattner, “because the chi or energy of the body isn’t circulating properly. Cardio moves blood and chi making you sleep better, before or during your period.” (And while masturbation might not count as cardio, an orgasm can definitely help you in your quest for sleep.)

Bunny Ghatrora, founder of Ellebox, an organic menstrual product delivery service, has had period insomnia with every cycle, and  drinks turmeric milk before bed. M, a teacher in her early 30’s, has tried melatonin, but says it only works for a night or two at most. “I also made some lavender spray for my pillow and made a lavender frankincense oil I rub on my temples. It helps, but it’s still frustrating.”

Sleep Science Coach Chris Bratner suggests practicing good “sleep hygiene” overall, but  especially in the days leading up to your period. Try things like avoiding caffeine (which also has an impact on your period)  in the afternoons, exercising, and creating a bedtime routine – turning off your screens, practicing yoga, making a list, things that de-escalate your anxiety and worry.

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